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Title: Sad Times
Post by: meganjane on September 06, 2012, 02:48:32 am: I won't be on here for a while as our family is in shock after a tragic car accident here.

My gorgeous niece was killed instantly when a truck lost control on a bad road just out of Katanning. My nephew and she had just moved over here in April from Queensland and were living out at our farm while saving some money to buy their own place in the country. He was working on a mine up north. She had just turned 40 and they were so happy. No children, though he has two in Q from a previous marriage.

We're having a celebration of her life next Thursday in our town as she had joined quite a few different groups and was really getting into the community.
She will be so missed. I was enjoying having her around and she had transformed the farm house and the garden out there.

It just doesn't seem fair, there are so many ratbags out there and someone who's so beautiful, kind and gentle gets taken away...
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Post by: cecilia on September 06, 2012, 02:52:16 am: Oh, you must be paralysed with grief, MJ. So sorry for what you are going through. Sometimes, the world is just not fair. xx
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Post by: CreamPuff63 on September 06, 2012, 02:53:06 am: it doesn't seem fair MJ. Will be thinking of you and wishing you all the best as you cope with your sad loss :'(
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Post by: Yvette on September 06, 2012, 02:55:30 am: MJ so sorry to hear of you loss how tragic, I will be thinking of you
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Post by: faffa_70 on September 06, 2012, 02:56:12 am: Thinking of you and yours MJ, sending much love and strength to you all. :-* :-*
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Post by: maddy on September 06, 2012, 02:56:20 am: Deepest condolences MJ, and to the family :(
xxxooo
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Post by: Wonder on September 06, 2012, 02:57:21 am: MJ so sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you over the coming weeks.
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Post by: SueJen on September 06, 2012, 02:59:09 am: Thinking of you MJ deepest condolences
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Post by: goldfish on September 06, 2012, 03:06:14 am: MJ - words simply can't express how deeply shocked and saddened I am to hear this. . . .sending loads of love and support for your strength to get through this horrible, senseless and tragic loss.
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Post by: judydawn on September 06, 2012, 03:19:45 am: Oh MJ, my heart weeps for you and the family - this is the tragic news we all hope we never have to hear. Our deepest condolences at this very sad time.
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Post by: mab19 on September 06, 2012, 03:28:02 am: MJ so sorry to hear of you loss how tragic, I am thinking of you at this sad time
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Post by: droverjess on September 06, 2012, 03:40:56 am: MJ so very very sorry to read this. Words seem so inadequate at a time like this. You have many friends on here who are all thinking of you and the family. Sending you and the whole family our deepest condolences and strength for the days ahead. You will be much in our thoughts, and in our prayers.
Xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by: Emme on September 06, 2012, 03:47:24 am: MJ so very sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time. :(

Marie
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Post by: Katiej on September 06, 2012, 04:03:20 am: MJ devastating news & such a tragedy. My heart goes out to you and your family. Take care.

Katie xx
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Post by: kt2 on September 06, 2012, 04:10:11 am: MJ so sorry to hear of your devastating loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. X
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Post by: gertbysea on September 06, 2012, 04:12:22 am: So sorry MJ . We will are be sending our thoughts and hugs for you and your family.

Gretchen
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Post by: obbie on September 06, 2012, 04:21:30 am: Megan Jane, my deepest sympathies for your family at this time. sending hugs :-*
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Post by: cookie1 on September 06, 2012, 04:24:49 am: MJ what awfully sad news. My deepest sympathy to you and all your family.
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Post by: fundj&e on September 06, 2012, 04:50:22 am: MJ so very sorry to hear of your loss.

hugs
uni
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Post by: EmeraldSue on September 06, 2012, 04:53:32 am: Such terrible news MJ. I wish I could say something to make you feel better, but words are useless at a time like this.
I will be thinking of you and your family.
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Post by: *suzanne* on September 06, 2012, 05:52:32 am: What devastating news for you and your family,love and thoughts to you all xx
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Post by: Cuilidh on September 06, 2012, 05:55:27 am: I cannot imagine the pain you and your family are going through just now - what a terrible, terrible thing to happen. Heartfelt sympathy to you all.
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Post by: Very Happy Jan on September 06, 2012, 06:27:36 am: Devastating news MJ. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
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Post by: Mama Fergie on September 06, 2012, 06:36:49 am: So sad to hear this tragic news. Our thoughts are with you and your family,
Deepest Condolences Megan Jane x
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Post by: ElleG on September 06, 2012, 07:29:10 am: MJ, so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. My condolences to you and your family. Wishing you strength to celebrate her life in a meaningful way.
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Post by: Cornish Cream on September 06, 2012, 07:36:22 am: MJ what sad news that has hit your family.My deepest sympathy to you and your family and I will be thinking of you during this sad time.
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Post by: Amy :-) on September 06, 2012, 07:52:38 am: Oh MJ, what a devastating tragedy :'( Best wishes, deepest sympathy, and many many hugs :-*
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Post by: dragongirly on September 06, 2012, 08:10:21 am: Sorry for your loss MJ. Wishing you and your family all the best at this time.
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Post by: snappy on September 06, 2012, 08:21:10 am: MJ I am so very sorry.
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Post by: dede on September 06, 2012, 08:44:32 am: MJ I'm so sorry for your loss, that is such sad news :(
Thinking of you in these tough times. Take care.
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Post by: Greyhoundmum on September 06, 2012, 08:53:00 am: So tragic, deepest sympathies Megan Jane. Take Care
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Post by: Rara1 on September 06, 2012, 10:09:08 am: Thinking of you and your family during this very tragic and difficult time.

Rara xxx
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Post by: trudy on September 06, 2012, 10:17:48 am: MJ, I was so very sorry to hear of your familys tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all to find the inner strength one needs at a time like this. Much love
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Post by: chrissa on September 06, 2012, 11:27:20 am: MJ, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to your and your family during this sad time.

Chrissa
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Post by: medusa on September 06, 2012, 12:10:56 pm: What awful, terrible news. I am so sorry.
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Post by: Debbiebillg on September 06, 2012, 12:16:30 pm: MJ, so very tragic and unfair ! My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. xxxx
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Post by: Bonsai on September 06, 2012, 12:23:27 pm: MJ so sad and unfair - thinking of you and your family at such an awful time. Hugs 😔
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Post by: Aussie Brenda on September 06, 2012, 12:52:11 pm: My thoughts are with you MJ. Celebrate her life with lots of love.
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Post by: pumpkin pie on September 06, 2012, 12:57:34 pm: My thoughts are with you at this difficult time MJ. A life taken at anytime is tragic, but when it is a young person, it is more difficult to understand.
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Post by: johnro on September 06, 2012, 01:27:20 pm: Sincerest sympathy to you and your family MJ - may you find peace and comfort in each other!
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Post by: Nikkit on September 06, 2012, 11:31:16 pm: Deepest sympathy to you and your family and the people of the community who loved her. Take care. Nikkit.x
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Post by: nazar on September 07, 2012, 01:54:40 am: MJ thinking of you and your family during this time . our thoughts and prayers are with you . hugs
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Post by: disaster chef on September 07, 2012, 02:55:15 am: I am so sorry for your loss my thoughts are with your family.
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Post by: Ceejay on September 07, 2012, 04:30:17 am: Thinking of you all at this time MJ. So sorry for your loss. Will keep you all in our thoughts and hearts. xxx
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Post by: mcmich on September 07, 2012, 07:20:01 am: MJ, so sorry to hear that sad news. Deepest condolences to you and your family.
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Post by: achookwoman on September 07, 2012, 09:07:47 am: MJ, this is so unfair. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
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Post by: jeninwa on September 07, 2012, 09:44:04 am: I'm so sorry to hear your sad news MJ. My thoughts are with you all.
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Post by: Amanda on September 07, 2012, 10:23:30 am: So very sorry to hear your news MJ.
My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad, sad time.
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Post by: kezza on September 07, 2012, 10:58:45 am: Sincere condolences MJ. Such a tragedy.
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Post by: SuzieG on September 07, 2012, 11:08:10 am: I'm so sorry to hear this news. Thinking of you and your family at this time.
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Post by: JulieO on September 07, 2012, 11:12:04 am: My condolences MJ.
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Post by: Tenina on September 07, 2012, 11:31:23 am: Oh Megan, so sorry…my love you and all who are affected by this tragedy.
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Post by: Delightful Den on September 07, 2012, 11:37:55 am: MJ I am sorry to hear of your tragic loss. I extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
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Post by: meganjane on September 07, 2012, 11:39:47 am: Just on here briefly and was only going to lurk to take my mind off things. Then I saw all the responses.
Thank you so much for the lovely kind words you have all written here. We're still trying to come to terms with it all.

I've written the memorial eulogy and a couple of poems and cried many tears while doing so. Planning the Celebration of Life has helped. We'll have wildflowers, lots of purple, her favourite colour and will release purple balloons with messages we'll write on them.

Thank you again, forum friends. xxx
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Post by: dede on September 07, 2012, 09:17:28 pm: This would be such a hard time for you MJ :(
Take care
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Post by: Deniser on September 07, 2012, 10:41:02 pm: Thinking of you. So sorry for your loss.
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Post by: djinni373 on September 08, 2012, 01:53:35 am: Quote from: meganjane on September 07, 2012, 11:39:47 am
I've written the memorial eulogy and a couple of poems and cried many tears while doing so. Planning the Celebration of Life has helped.
MJ what a tragedy. In my experience, writing and delivering the eulogy and planning the Celebration of Life (although extremely difficult to do) really does help a little. Sincere condolences to you and your family.
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Post by: Halex on September 08, 2012, 01:55:45 am: MJ, that is so sad, I am sorry for all your families loss. I agree its not fair.

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Post by: Master Moderator on September 08, 2012, 08:24:04 am: What terrible news. My thoughts are with you and family at this very sad time.

Admin
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Post by: Jadey on September 17, 2012, 01:05:41 pm: MJ I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you at the moment as you celebrat her life.

Xxx
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Post by: Frozzie on September 17, 2012, 05:43:59 pm: Mj just wrote something on the im back thread.. Again such terrible news and how tragic.. My thoughts are with you your family and her friends.. So very sad to hear xx
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Post by: astarra on September 26, 2012, 12:09:21 am: Oh MJ - how very very sad.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
So so sorry to hear of this tragedy. :'(
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Post by: obbie on September 26, 2012, 12:46:32 am: Hi Astarra, are you ok, we have missed you