I buy a half lamb leg and ask the butcher to de-bone it, then the dog gets the bone. I go home and dice the meat as I wish.
I usually halve the chilli powder in this as my children are 10 and 6, love curry, but not the heat. It is definitely spicy, as in tasty, but it doesn't need to be hot because it's only chilli powder. Just start small with the powder and stir a bit more through at the end if you want it hotter :-) I sometimes serve the children and then stir more powder through the remainder for DH and I.
It IS flavoursome/spicy, but that's not the same as hot. Definitely a good a medium with this amount of chilli but just add it to order.