Wow, thanks everyone!
I can't believe how many other people in this forum have had similar problems to my DS - it's so hard when they suffer. I just want to go through it all for him, it feels so unfair that he has to go through this at just 2! It's just wrong that we have to fight so hard to get things like this done for them - it's their future, something undetected now could cause learning disabilities later and it just snow balls from there. My younger brother (18) has had big problems for a long time, and because it took so long to find out exactly what was going on, it's caused more problems. We live in such an advanced world, we shouldn't have kids slipping through the cracks the way we do. But anyway, I'll get off my soap box now... lol
You know, it's amazing just how much the prospect of getting a thermomix has motivated me to cook more. I explore things a lot more now, and experiment. It was only because of this forum that I bought a pasta machine yesterday, and I've been experimenting with bread making and that kind of stuff. And I got a 5-in-1 multi cooker a few months ago because of what was mentioned on this forum.
I know these recipes are aimed at thermomix wonders, but I do attempt a lot of them. The I love Bimby chocolate cake is FANTASTIC - it takes me a bit longer using a bench mixer, because I can't just throw it all in, I have to cream the butter and sugar, and then the eggs first then I can add the rest of it. I found if I just throw it all int he bench mixer, the milk makes the butter too firm to blend in properly, so I end up with small lumps of better through it.
Thank you for the warm welcome everyone - it's greatly appreciated!!