Quick Q: are dried onions the same as fried onions, the sort of things you get on hotdogs? And sometimes get on top of egg fried rice?
What type of chillies did you use Tarasis? Butter chicken is meant to be one of the milder curries...Try adding some coconut milk to your leftover curry to make it milder. You could also make a lassi to have with it, alternatively wash it down with a beer or too
id make more sauce to add to it minus the chilli of course or just like carine said and add some more coconut milk to mild it down a bit.. and butter chicken shouldnt be hot especially to the point of burning your mouth out....what sort of chillis did you use...bird eye chillis..tiny tiny red ones? pity you made the effort for your wife and it wasnt what you both expected...maybe as a rule you should leave out chillis in recipes until you find which ones you want to add them to and which ones you dont...its easier to add in than be stuck xith a dish you cant eat
Poor you. I'm a chicken and when I make the Tikka paste I only use ½ the quantity of chillies.