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Offline johnro

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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #90 on: February 17, 2012, 09:07:59 am »
DG my heart goes out to you - having lost both parents (in their mid to late fifities), I can relate to your family's position in some way.  :-*
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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #91 on: February 17, 2012, 09:10:34 am »
Very, very sorry to hear this DG.  Yes, you must spend as much time with him as you can and count each day as a blessing.  You are in our thoughts.

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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #92 on: February 17, 2012, 09:55:49 am »
DG I'm sorry to hear the news about your Dad.  Keep all your family close and make the most of this precious time.

My thoughts are with you,
Take care, Katie xx
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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #93 on: February 17, 2012, 10:37:03 am »
DG, so sorry to hear this news, Just make every minute count, but yes you must also look after yourself, as this time can be so exhausting mentally and physically. My thoughts are with you and you family.

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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #94 on: February 17, 2012, 01:10:53 pm »
Oh DG devastting news.... Cherish the time you have together ... I dont know hat is worse .. Having the chance to say all that you need to say ad losng them bit by bit which is painful and exhausting or not having had that chance ... Find strength in one another and again cherish every moment you can but make sure you get rest and eat well..like my gp says to me often if your not well then you cant take care of antyone or be there for anyone so think of taking care of yourself as a necessity.. Know its not easy.. Hugs xx
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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #95 on: February 17, 2012, 10:24:44 pm »
Sadly I experienced both types of loss with Mum and Dad with each being as devastating - thankfully I had babies who required a functioning mother xx
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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #96 on: February 18, 2012, 07:21:45 am »
Xx robyn
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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #97 on: March 22, 2012, 10:14:42 pm »
Sorry I have been away for awhile. Dads cancer was very aggressive and he lost his battle on 8th March at 1.45am.

I will try and pop in when I can.

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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #98 on: March 22, 2012, 10:20:45 pm »
Oh DG....so very sorry  :(
  Condolences  to you and your family.
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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #99 on: March 22, 2012, 10:22:49 pm »
Sorry to hear that DG, our condolences and thoughts to you and your family.  :'( :'(
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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #100 on: March 22, 2012, 10:24:36 pm »
Sorry to hear that DG, my thoughts are with you. Take care. Hugs from me.
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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #101 on: March 22, 2012, 11:05:32 pm »
PLEASE Take care DG  and give yourself and your family some loving.

It is just over 3 months since we lost Mum just before Christmas. These aggressive cancers still take you by surprise even though you think you have dealt with it and said your good byes etc etc. We were told Mum had up to 6 months and lasted 4.

You pour so much into that time knowing that it is limited but you also forget to REALLY look after yourself so, as hard as I know it is, PLEASE make sure that you are doing just a little bit each day to look after yourself and give yourself a big hug from me. Thinking of you lots  :-* :-*
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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #102 on: March 22, 2012, 11:28:15 pm »
DG - I was so sad to hear your news - I think time is the best healer and faffa's right - you really must look after yourself now and give time the best opportunity you can to help you through.  Take good care -we're all thinking of you and your family.

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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #103 on: March 22, 2012, 11:40:20 pm »
I will join faffa and the others in wishing you and your family all the best.

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Re: Sad Christmas Day
« Reply #104 on: March 22, 2012, 11:44:08 pm »
DG, sorry to hear this. wishing you and your family all the best.
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