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Title: Where have all the men gone?
Post by: Cuilidh on May 06, 2012, 03:32:28 am
Has anyone else noticed that we seem to have lost (nearly) all of our male contributors recently (I initially put the word 'members' in there instead of contributors but thought that was a bit provocative!)?

Do you remember Leesmac78 and his partner, Ed?  Then there was Dean, Thermomixer, Tarasis and several others.  I think Dashingden, and occasionally Bluesed, are the only guys that post these days.  It's a shame to lose the others and I hope they come back again.

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Post by: Halex on May 06, 2012, 03:35:32 am
Marina, yes your right. Where are they all?!

H :)
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Post by: Lovemythermo on May 06, 2012, 03:51:15 am
There was also TM Ted. Think he was going to become a consultant if my memory serves me.
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Post by: obbie on May 06, 2012, 04:03:52 am
Missing In Action so it seems. :(
I hope they come back too.

Robyn
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Post by: judydawn on May 06, 2012, 08:07:32 am
Maybe us girls scared them off ;D  It's nice to hear from the guys though.
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Post by: cecilia on May 06, 2012, 08:12:39 am
Kent has been commenting recently.
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Post by: Merlin on May 06, 2012, 08:52:22 am
I love hearing from the boys- nothing better than a guy whipping up all of those delicious meals in a TM!!!!
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Post by: Frozzie on May 06, 2012, 09:32:12 am
Ive noticed a number of members no longer posting.. :((
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Post by: dede on May 06, 2012, 09:56:59 am
Yes your right. Lots of members lost in action. Where have you all gone? We not that scary are we :)
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Post by: faffa_70 on May 06, 2012, 10:23:10 am
bah men ... no staying power lol

(and before you men jump down my throat I am surrounded by them on a ration of 5 males to 2 females in this house!!)
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Post by: Merrilyn on May 06, 2012, 10:35:03 am
I was wondering where Lee and Ed had got too.  The last we heard they were winging their way to Aus.  Must say, I do miss his humorous stories.  And of course, Thermomixer.  He is sorely missed.

Come back guys.  We miss you.
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Post by: dede on May 06, 2012, 11:56:59 am
bah men ... no staying power lol

(and before you men jump down my throat I am surrounded by them on a ration of 5 males to 2 females in this house!!)

lol :D
We are 4 males to 3 females in this house.
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Post by: Amy :-) on May 06, 2012, 12:43:37 pm
Maybe some of us ladies should start growing beards and leaving the toilet seat up and leaving dirty socks inside out on the floor to try and compensate for the lack of manliness... ???
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Post by: Cornish Cream on May 06, 2012, 01:27:15 pm
I wonder what happened to Russell. ??? he was starting the failsafe diet and bought the TM to help.
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Post by: Delightful Den on May 06, 2012, 01:44:48 pm
I am still hanging around. Probably a sad indictment on my lack of friends/social life.  I noticed from reading some earlier posts that their seemed to be more men posting than their are atm.

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Post by: Bonsai on May 06, 2012, 01:50:12 pm
Not an indictment at all Dashingden. - actually a very clever way to keep in touch with a lot of people who have similar interests without having the problem of set meeting times or long travel. I've never been keen on forums before this one but the foodie/Thermomix talk and generosity of spirit shown by forum members has me hooked.  There are over 6000 members but just a fraction regularly post. Hope the others get what they need from the forum regardless!
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Post by: mcmich on May 06, 2012, 10:05:29 pm
Maybe the moderators could send out a friendly we miss you call to the members?
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Post by: Halex on May 07, 2012, 12:11:11 am
This is the only forum I am on. Its a great way to chat to people who understand the need to cook food & cook it well.

My friends think I am crazy spending so mch time in the kitchen, its what I enjoy, its a hobby and a lot cheaper than some hobbies. We get to eat great food & I get lots of help when needed, a huge BONUS have met and will meet some lovely caring people. :)

H :)

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Post by: DizzyGirl on May 07, 2012, 01:26:48 am
Maybe Dashingden is too much competition for the men  ;D
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Post by: Delightful Den on May 08, 2012, 02:10:14 pm
DG it is more likely because all I do is work, train and occasionally race. It doesn't help that I am very calorie conscious and don't waste many calories on alcohol.

I competed in the Busselton Ironman70.3 Triathlon on the weekend. Now I am 'resting' before I begin training for the CIiy to Surf Marathon.

Dennis
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Post by: Rogizoja on May 08, 2012, 03:10:52 pm
We're still here darlings, keeping a beady eye on you ladies!!
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Post by: Merlin on May 08, 2012, 08:11:18 pm
I suspect there are many lurkers to this forum, both female and male out there. I'm sure many of the men registered on this forum are as obsessive as we are about cooking and food in general but obviously don't feel the need necessarily to contribute posts to forums.
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Post by: nazar on May 09, 2012, 11:36:26 am
 l had thought  the same thing and had wondered my self.
 how tarasis and his family is going
and what  has been happening in  lee and ed life lately
 they did have some  funny story's  to share with us
 l shore do hope that all the men come back they are missed  
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Post by: Shayla on May 09, 2012, 07:33:56 pm
I lurk quite a bit and post occasionally - I am a female but live in a mans world - sometimes I struggle to find content amongst small talk - no offence intended - but men do not do small talk and I think they are put off by the enormous amounts of small talk. Men like instant gratification - don't we girls all know that? They go to a forum for info not small talk. ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: kent on May 10, 2012, 01:35:05 am
Thanks for noticing Cecilia  :)

I post a little bit, I don't actually have a TMX as yet, but will be getting one around mid-July when I train to be a consultant.

I tend to lurk and read unless I have something to contribute.
Title: Re: Where have all the men gone?
Post by: Merlin on May 10, 2012, 09:19:35 am
Nothing wrong with lurking but no harm in contributing posts either- this is such a friendly and informative forum , any contribution  is gratefully accepted. I would suggest that if someone has registered for a forum it implies that they should at least contribute some posts, otherwise if someone just needs recipes etc, you can surf the net for those.
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Post by: judydawn on May 27, 2012, 08:33:14 am
Has anyone else noticed that we seem to have lost (nearly) all of our male contributors recently (I initially put the word 'members' in there instead of contributors but thought that was a bit provocative!)?

Do you remember Leesmac78 and his partner, Ed? 


I noticed Ed was browsing this afternoon so I quickly sent him a pm and asked if they were OK.  He replied that work for both of them has been really busy but they are both well.
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Post by: Lellyj on May 27, 2012, 08:38:46 am
Good to hear that Ed and Lee are well, Judy, and great work on all your training, Dashingden. 

I've been missing the blokes too, but can't complain when I'm lurking more than posting myself these days (reports, ugghh!). 
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Post by: frans on May 27, 2012, 01:18:51 pm
Hi my name is Frans and i do read this forum everyday. According to the statistics of this forum since i became a member i have notched up 7 days and 8 hours and 19 minutes.  I have a tm 31 for 2 years now I also have as many of you members a kenwood mixer 2 pressure cookers 4 slow cookers different sizes ,300 cook books. I also have the most beautiful bbq called the KOMODO KAMADO a tiled cooker weighing about 300 kilos it is a macnificent bbq a bit like the thermomix of the bbq's. I do not contribute much because i find it difficult to communicate in this format. frans
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Post by: dede on May 27, 2012, 01:22:58 pm
Welcome to the forum Frans, there are plenty of members out there who visit the forum regularly buy don't post. But it is nice to say hello and introduce your self. I like the sound of your BBQ, I'm guessing you use that quiet a bit.
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Post by: judydawn on May 27, 2012, 01:27:44 pm
Hi Frans, nothing wrong with your communication skills - I am able to read you loud and clear.  You mentioned Filipino recipes in an earlier posting - have you got anything quick and easy you would like to share with us?
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Post by: achookwoman on May 27, 2012, 01:31:55 pm
Hi Frans,  we have similar tastes.  I have had my TMX for 2 years , about 300 cooking books, 2 kenwoods, 2 slow cookers, 2 BBQ , but not as smart as yours.  No pressure cookers.  Please drop in again. ;D
Title: Re: Where have all the men gone?
Post by: Cuilidh on May 27, 2012, 08:29:25 pm
Good to hear that Ed and Lee are still with us when they get the time - thanks for following up with them, Judy.  Hope we will hear from them again one day.
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Post by: judydawn on May 28, 2012, 01:00:01 am
I've also emailed Ted and Tarasis (Rob) to see how they both are so will report back if I hear from either of them.
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Post by: frans on May 28, 2012, 06:45:07 am
Hi Judy, thank you for your kind words. Here is a Filipino recipe that I have made a few times now and really enjoy .This is there national dish
sort of. there are many different recipes on the net. You can add whatever you prefere. there are also pork recipes or a combination of both chicken and pork. the base is soy and vinegar.
CHICKEN ADOBO:
one chicken cut up into serving pieces or chicken pieces
1/2 cup soy
3/4 cup white vinegar
Garlick as much as you would like,suggestion is one or two heads
bay leaves
peppercorns up to you.
salt to taste, careful here because of the soy.
procedure:
1/ place chicken,soy,vinegar,garlick,bay leaves and peppercorns in the pot and bring to the boil.
reduce the heat and simmer 30 min. you may want to add some water.
remove the chicken and slowly fry in a separate pot IE frying pan.
let the sauce in the pot boil until reduced by half. give and take.
return the chicken to the sauce ad season according to you liking. and serve. I like it with potatoes ,you may prefere rice and veggies.
you may be able to adapt to the thermomix I have not done it yet. Frans
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Post by: judydawn on May 28, 2012, 08:25:07 am
Thanks frans - we actually have Chicken Adobo here (http://www.forumthermomix.com/index.php?topic=1989.0) on the forum and I have done it a couple of times, delicious.
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Post by: Bedlam on May 28, 2012, 08:37:06 am
I too have been wondering how Lee and Ed were going.  You always have your finger on the pulse JD.
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Post by: Delightful Den on May 28, 2012, 03:27:51 pm
Hi my name is Frans and i do read this forum everyday. According to the statistics of this forum since i became a member i have notched up 7 days and 8 hours and 19 minutes.  I have a tm 31 for 2 years now I also have as many of you members a kenwood mixer 2 pressure cookers 4 slow cookers different sizes ,300 cook books. I also have the most beautiful bbq called the KOMODO KAMADO a tiled cooker weighing about 300 kilos it is a macnificent bbq a bit like the thermomix of the bbq's. I do not contribute much because i find it difficult to communicate in this format. frans

Us blokes need to stick together Frans. I love the sound of the BBQ it sounds like my kind of appliance.  I used to have a wood fired pizza oven before I shifted house and would like to build another one. I spent time in the Philippines about 30 years ago. Never had chicken Adobo that I can remember, I will have to give it a try.  I do rememeber having a really delicious noodle dish in the PI but can't remember the name of it.
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Post by: goldfish on May 28, 2012, 09:28:01 pm
DD . . don't look now . . . but you've probably got more friends on here than you can shake a stick at!!!!! ;D

Love your posts!!  . . and good luck at the retreat!!  You're a brave man!!! ;D
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Post by: obbie on May 29, 2012, 12:10:44 am
Guys, please come out from lurking, we know you are out there. we do miss the males input here. :)

So many guys are great at cooking too.
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Post by: Amy :-) on May 29, 2012, 12:14:52 am
So many guys are great at cooking too.

Heston :-* :-*
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Post by: tarasis on September 13, 2012, 02:37:34 pm
Hi guys I'm around of sorts.

As I mentioned to Judy in another thread my beginning of year got screwed around majorly. Basically I spent the week post Christmas in hospital (boxing day till New Year's Eve) for reasons they couldn't quite determine but I was in a lot of pain. The outcome was they felt my spleen was too big and should come out.

So early January I'm getting various vaccinations done as a pre-prep and then I got I'll again. I was incredibly tired, finding it slow to walk and stuff, so off to the Doctor who checked my blood and spleen and felt that it needed to come out now. It was good timing as my wife's parents had just arrived for a two week trip, so they got the kids and I was taken into hospital. There they did a CT scan (I think) and discovered that as well as they spleen I had pneumonia. This meant that they couldn't take the spleen out till the pneumonia had been dealt with first. Cue basically 3 more weeks in hospital. First two dealing with pneumonia and then Op and recovery time. (Spleen was 20cm and weight 680kg). Once home I wasn't supposed to do much of anything for 6 weeks, so I wasn't even really cooking during that time.

So that gets me to Mid March, life is returning to normal though it still hurts a bit where the scar was (16 lovely staples) when I did start cooking again it was mostly staples and for whatever reason fell away from here. Then I got involved in writing a book (and now debating leaving it as struggling time wise), July I made a bunch of things in the Thermomix (notably for my wife's birthday where I cooked for her and 7 of her friends various Thermomix curry dishes and lemon sorbet and fizzy lemonade), August we were on holiday in Northern Ireland and then we got to September.

Amusingly I came back to the forum looking for a byriani recipe and found a post from me from last year :)

I'm not using the Thermomix anywhere near as much as last year but I expect it will increase again (heck I've got more tikka paste to make),

I am daily making soda farls (250g flour, 1tsp baking soda, 1/4 tsp salt, 230g buttermilk, gently stirred together to form dough, then cooked on a low heat in a heavy frying pan / flat griddle (floured) for 10 minutes each side) which is a Northern Irish bread for me and the kids to eat, been forever since I used the TMX for bread or rolls..

Sorry I disappeared, and its kinda odd that many of the men vanished. Maybe we men are just bad at sticking too things :)
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Post by: judydawn on September 13, 2012, 02:45:36 pm
Thanks for sharing your reason for your absence Rob, glad you are back and obviously in good health once again. 
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Post by: fundj&e on September 13, 2012, 07:54:43 pm
so glad you are better now rob. welcome back 
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Post by: Cornish Cream on September 13, 2012, 08:00:17 pm
Good to see you back Rob.You certainly have had an eventful year ;) :)
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Post by: Halex on September 13, 2012, 09:04:42 pm
Rob, it has been a full on year health wise for you.

Nice to see a post.

H :)
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Post by: Cuilidh on September 13, 2012, 09:25:00 pm
Good to have you back with us, Rob.  What a year you have had!  Take care and look after yourself and family.
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Post by: obbie on September 13, 2012, 09:42:37 pm
Glad your back Rob.
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Post by: Wonder on September 13, 2012, 09:49:30 pm
Glad to hear you are back Rob and great to hear you are feeling better after a shocker year.
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Post by: goldfish on September 13, 2012, 10:17:46 pm
Hi Rob - it's so good to see you back!!  What a full on year for you!!!  sincerely hope your health continues to improve and things get back to normal for you.  all the best!
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Post by: Emme on September 13, 2012, 10:29:09 pm
Glad things are getting better for you Rob. 

Marie
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Post by: faffa_70 on September 13, 2012, 10:59:50 pm
Good to see you back Rob, hope you are feeling on top of the world soon. There is nothing worse than a year feeling crappy (I know!!) but once you get on top of it it's a whole new game. Hang in there  :)
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Post by: Yvette on September 14, 2012, 01:10:37 am
Welcome back Rob  :)
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Post by: Delightful Den on September 14, 2012, 02:00:57 am
Welcome back Rob,  I hope that the rest of the year proves to be  better for you.
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Post by: tarasis on September 15, 2012, 09:24:51 am
Whoa. Thanks everyone, I hadn't expected that.

Now I just have to lose the 8-9kg I put on since hospital :/ ESP tricky with all the nice food you can make with the thermomix :)
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Post by: Halex on September 15, 2012, 09:27:14 am
Soups are yum & healthy, as long as they are not eaten with 1/2 a fresh loaf  & lashings of TM butter  ;D

H :)
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Post by: cookie1 on September 17, 2012, 12:57:05 pm
Lovely to have you back Rob.

Did your spleen really weigh 680 kg? :) :) :)
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Post by: tarasis on September 17, 2012, 01:04:33 pm
Thanks Cookie and ack! Yes, um, only 680g ...