Hi JacquieC! I've been making coconut butter for a while, from the recipe on Helene's site (Thermomixer) and I love it. I add a bit of raw cacao and natural sweetener to mine and it's even better! I'll try your method. Mine has yet to turn completely liquid though...
You can make your own flours in the Thermomix (as you probably know), we made a chick pea/rice flour bread today for the girls. I eat grain free (you must too if you are on the paleo way of life, huh?) -- I did taste the bread though and it was quite nice and my picky teens liked it too! Which is a plus as I don't buy loaves of bread very often.
Some people use the coconut butter in their yoghurt (plain full fat greek yoghurt) - I just love coconut! So even with a spoon is a great way to eat it, for me!
Nice to meet you!!