We have a Miele with a cutlery draw in the top and it's great. We've had it about 6 years and apart from our plumber having troubles installing it we've never had any problems. Forgot to add try the library for choice, in the past I've been able to review the articles at the library without the need to subscribe to choice.
Michele - maybe that is why I loved my dish drawers, just cuz of the kiwi factor!
Whatever you do do not buy an Ariston. I like my Bosch which is quiet. It is the basic model because we cannot have anything with a computer board due to geckos eating it. Just a simple dial. With your family I would want something with a bigger capacity and a fast cycle.Gert