I'm sure you are sociable Uni, you just don't put up with crap - usually Gretchen doesn't either. The things we do for our DH's. Friends like that we do not need. My infrequent guests are always first class and I love having them back. We learn from experiences like those mentioned and become very choosy as to which people can stay in our homes. Gretchen I have a lovely friend from Brisbane who is the perfect house guest, she does her own handwashing, eats anything and everything served up, is so easy to get on with, lets me beat her at scrabble and is one of the few who will sit and have a drink with you every night She then leaves money hidden somewhere she knows I will find it and a lovely note thanking me for my hospitality and saying how much she has enjoyed her stay - totally unnecessary but how do you stop people like that.
Andie, I'm allergic to pretty much any synthetic scent so they are all but banned in the house. Recently had house guests who despite numerous comments about my allergy sprayed her entire body (or so it seemed) with perfume each morning, needless to say I was very happy to see them go.