well, mum's who have an empty nest during school hours spare a thought for full time empty nesters who have no grown up kidlets making a noise or a mess. I always thought I would be jumping and down for joy when they spread their wings but I miss their smiling faces, computer help, and banter. (I have no one to discuss MKR with now ) Cherish the peace and quiet while you have it when they're at school, and then enjoy having them and their friends around when they come home. The years fly by and they are very slow at making you grandparents nowadays so its a long time between bear hugs