Thanks anyhow guys, yes JUDYDWAN, I am mad, I realise this now. It was the straw that broke the camels back I am afriad... I always take too much on and I ended up in a few tears last night. Anyhow at least I have learnt a bit as one day I would have tried and tried to go ahead with the plans - but take out pizza it was!!!!!! I now must realise to SLOW down a bit too! The curry is on the menu for tonight (just us) minus the sides. Will do the whole Indian buffet thing as a houewarming I guess!!!