I'm happy because BIL came through major surgery alive. We did tell him not to wake up dead as we wouldn't be happy. Marvellous surgeons at Charlie Gairdners. Thanks to all of them.
I must admit we all have a weird sense of humour. When my little brother had a melanoma removed from his foot we kept taking him one sock as we said he wouldn't need two. However he still needs 2 socks 20 years later. BIL is unable to walk as he has no feeling in his legs but at least he is still with us.